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The drunken scotsman
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 Posted - 2015/02/16 : 08:02:26
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you think youve got it bad...don't get me started on half the shit i've been through my whole ****ing life if i was to tell you even a small portion of the shit i've had to go through you would realise how ****ing lucky you are hell you're at uni ffs i would KILL to be at uni (really i would)
in the past couple of years i've had to deal with suicidal thoughts, crippling depression major panick attacks (the kind where you legitimately think you're about to die kind of panic attacks) they have been so severe i sometimes can't leave my house for days on end and have literally become a recluse not to mention living everyday with a mental health problem that dictates everything i do 24hrs a day i lost my aunt and 2 month old nephew in the space of a month and tried to kill myself just before xmas
you think your life sucks give me a ****in break
It's not a competition ffs! It's a very common problem, everyone has shit to deal with.
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The Dopeman
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Posted - 2015/02/16 : 11:32:32
i know it's not but he's kinda making a mountain out of a molehill if you ask me his life doesn't sound too bad it's certainly not as bad as mine seeing as he's a uni n supposedly very smart i know how bad being bi polar since i am myself but coming on a forum and saying "oh my life sucks someone shoot me dead" etc isn't the way to deal with it
if anyone on here is a therapist by all means dole out some therapy
the reason i'm so pissed is if i come on here with a problem i either get shit for my ****in grammar or nobody seems to give a shit but this he comes and says "someone shot me dead" and BOOM!! you're all trying your best to make him feel better etc
if i could give you all a small insight into what i've had to go through the past few years you would certainly look at this a completely different way there are loads of times i could have come on here saying "oh i hate life i want to die" etc but i just got on with life i rarely get any help fromfamily i have a grand total of 2 friends i spend most of my days on my own (with my dog) and i can guarantee if i had come on here and made a post about how shit my life is nobody would give a shit (it's happened before) so forgive me for being realistic
LIFE SUCKS DEAL WITH IT!!!
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Posted - 2015/02/16 : 12:21:45
If I seen anyone one here with suicidal tendencies I'd always try my best to help. Ive never had troubles so strong to ever consider it but I almost lost a mate through depression & know just how serious it can be.
That goes for messages as well, if anyone out there does feel that low, get in touch & I'll try & help out.
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Elipton
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Posted - 2015/02/16 : 17:23:19
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Originally posted by The Dopeman:
i know it's not but he's kinda making a mountain out of a molehill if you ask me his life doesn't sound too bad it's certainly not as bad as mine seeing as he's a uni n supposedly very smart i know how bad being bi polar since i am myself but coming on a forum and saying "oh my life sucks someone shoot me dead" etc isn't the way to deal with it
if anyone on here is a therapist by all means dole out some therapy
the reason i'm so pissed is if i come on here with a problem i either get shit for my ****in grammar or nobody seems to give a shit but this he comes and says "someone shot me dead" and BOOM!! you're all trying your best to make him feel better etc
if i could give you all a small insight into what i've had to go through the past few years you would certainly look at this a completely different way there are loads of times i could have come on here saying "oh i hate life i want to die" etc but i just got on with life i rarely get any help fromfamily i have a grand total of 2 friends i spend most of my days on my own (with my dog) and i can guarantee if i had come on here and made a post about how shit my life is nobody would give a shit (it's happened before) so forgive me for being realistic
LIFE SUCKS DEAL WITH IT!!!
You don't need to be center of attention all the time.
Everyone has their issues, and some scale differently for other people. Either way, if someone's unhappy and they use a hhc as a domain to vent, we listen. I don't think there's much basis for your assumption that if you were unhappy no one would care.
If you think we'd give you a hard time for feeling down, why do you remain in this little web-community if you think so little of us?
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Maggers
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 02:48:18
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Originally posted by The Dopeman:
i know it's not but he's kinda making a mountain out of a molehill if you ask me his life doesn't sound too bad it's certainly not as bad as mine seeing as he's a uni n supposedly very smart i know how bad being bi polar since i am myself but coming on a forum and saying "oh my life sucks someone shoot me dead" etc isn't the way to deal with it
if anyone on here is a therapist by all means dole out some therapy
the reason i'm so pissed is if i come on here with a problem i either get shit for my ****in grammar or nobody seems to give a shit but this he comes and says "someone shot me dead" and BOOM!! you're all trying your best to make him feel better etc
if i could give you all a small insight into what i've had to go through the past few years you would certainly look at this a completely different way there are loads of times i could have come on here saying "oh i hate life i want to die" etc but i just got on with life i rarely get any help fromfamily i have a grand total of 2 friends i spend most of my days on my own (with my dog) and i can guarantee if i had come on here and made a post about how shit my life is nobody would give a shit (it's happened before) so forgive me for being realistic
LIFE SUCKS DEAL WITH IT!!!
I'm sorry you've had such a difficult time, and that you feel that people haven't listened to you. I can speak from experience that if someone needs support, telling them to buck up and deal with it can often lead to the opposite with potentially catastrophic consequences.
To Don Simon - I hope you're having a better day. I can't guarantee things will be better after university, but find the things you enjoy doing and make sure you always keep them in your life. A crap job with crap people is ok as long as you have that little bit of light at the end of the tunnel.
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Hard2Get
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 09:47:12
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Originally posted by Maggers:
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Originally posted by The Dopeman:
i know it's not but he's kinda making a mountain out of a molehill if you ask me his life doesn't sound too bad it's certainly not as bad as mine seeing as he's a uni n supposedly very smart i know how bad being bi polar since i am myself but coming on a forum and saying "oh my life sucks someone shoot me dead" etc isn't the way to deal with it
if anyone on here is a therapist by all means dole out some therapy
the reason i'm so pissed is if i come on here with a problem i either get shit for my ****in grammar or nobody seems to give a shit but this he comes and says "someone shot me dead" and BOOM!! you're all trying your best to make him feel better etc
if i could give you all a small insight into what i've had to go through the past few years you would certainly look at this a completely different way there are loads of times i could have come on here saying "oh i hate life i want to die" etc but i just got on with life i rarely get any help fromfamily i have a grand total of 2 friends i spend most of my days on my own (with my dog) and i can guarantee if i had come on here and made a post about how shit my life is nobody would give a shit (it's happened before) so forgive me for being realistic
LIFE SUCKS DEAL WITH IT!!!
I'm sorry you've had such a difficult time, and that you feel that people haven't listened to you. I can speak from experience that if someone needs support, telling them to buck up and deal with it can often lead to the opposite with potentially catastrophic consequences.
To Don Simon - I hope you're having a better day. I can't guarantee things will be better after university, but find the things you enjoy doing and make sure you always keep them in your life. A crap job with crap people is ok as long as you have that little bit of light at the end of the tunnel.
Yeah i think the key here is good friends (not just people you know that you call friends) because they are your support system. Even without actually talking to them, knowing they exist is a big thing. Generally humans don't do too well without this. So if you don't have good friends but you do have to interact with a lot of dicks on a daily basis then that's going to make things pretty daunting but just remember that that isn't an accurate representation of all life.
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The Dopeman
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 18:46:03
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You don't need to be center of attention all the time.
i don't think i do
the fact is i've been through more shit in my life than anyone else on this forum i've been on the verge of death 4 times (twice due to failed suicide attempts) plus he hasn't given any real insight into why he wants to end his life and from what he's said i really don't see why he needs to end it he's at uni, he's smart, he's fit and healthy and that's all you really need in life having no friends shouldn't be a problem imo sure it's nice to have friends but it's not a necessity in life
i'll have to deal with depression for the rest of my life since it's one of the symptoms of my disability plus being diagnosed as bi polar in the last year doesn't really help me out that much but i look at it in the sense that it's all a state of mind and it can't hurt you unless you allow it to
i really should be dead after some of the things i've been through and done to myself over the years so maybe i'm stronger than most people i don't know but i do know that doctors and the help/medication they can provide along with advice from others be it family, friends or randoms on the internet can only do so much the rest is upto you you just have to keep your mind focused on why it's better not ending your life
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 19:46:35
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the fact is i've been through more shit in my life than anyone else on this forum
it's not fact, you've got no idea what others here have gone through
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Elipton
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 19:53:52
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Originally posted by The Dopeman:
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Originally posted by Elipton:
You don't need to be center of attention all the time.
i don't think i do
the fact is i've been through more shit in my life than anyone else on this forum i've been on the verge of death 4 times (twice due to failed suicide attempts) plus he hasn't given any real insight into why he wants to end his life and from what he's said i really don't see why he needs to end it he's at uni, he's smart, he's fit and healthy and that's all you really need in life having no friends shouldn't be a problem imo sure it's nice to have friends but it's not a necessity in life
i'll have to deal with depression for the rest of my life since it's one of the symptoms of my disability plus being diagnosed as bi polar in the last year doesn't really help me out that much but i look at it in the sense that it's all a state of mind and it can't hurt you unless you allow it to
i really should be dead after some of the things i've been through and done to myself over the years so maybe i'm stronger than most people i don't know but i do know that doctors and the help/medication they can provide along with advice from others be it family, friends or randoms on the internet can only do so much the rest is upto you you just have to keep your mind focused on why it's better not ending your life
What you've been through has no relevance here. No one's comparing you to him, only you are. You think you're stronger for what you've been through? All your posts have been kicking a man while he's down.
No one should have to go through 2 suicide attempts before they're allowed to seek help from people or open up about their problems. don_simon is perfectly entitled to open up, and you are directly in the wrong for some of the things you've said. I had a lot of respect for the way you hadn't your disability, but that respect has gone out of the window.
You have bi polar and you've suffered with what simon's described, so I can't understand why you cant use your experience with it and with depression to stop someone else from having to experience it or trying something as radical as suicide.. What you've done instead, by saying - in effect - 'shut up and stop complaining, my problems are worse' is actually quite spiteful and you're only going to make him feel worse. I don't respect that at all.
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The Dopeman
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 20:48:05
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Originally posted by Elipton:
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Originally posted by The Dopeman:
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Originally posted by Elipton:
You don't need to be center of attention all the time.
i don't think i do
the fact is i've been through more shit in my life than anyone else on this forum i've been on the verge of death 4 times (twice due to failed suicide attempts) plus he hasn't given any real insight into why he wants to end his life and from what he's said i really don't see why he needs to end it he's at uni, he's smart, he's fit and healthy and that's all you really need in life having no friends shouldn't be a problem imo sure it's nice to have friends but it's not a necessity in life
i'll have to deal with depression for the rest of my life since it's one of the symptoms of my disability plus being diagnosed as bi polar in the last year doesn't really help me out that much but i look at it in the sense that it's all a state of mind and it can't hurt you unless you allow it to
i really should be dead after some of the things i've been through and done to myself over the years so maybe i'm stronger than most people i don't know but i do know that doctors and the help/medication they can provide along with advice from others be it family, friends or randoms on the internet can only do so much the rest is upto you you just have to keep your mind focused on why it's better not ending your life
What you've been through has no relevance here. No one's comparing you to him, only you are. You think you're stronger for what you've been through? All your posts have been kicking a man while he's down.
No one should have to go through 2 suicide attempts before they're allowed to seek help from people or open up about their problems. don_simon is perfectly entitled to open up, and you are directly in the wrong for some of the things you've said. I had a lot of respect for the way you hadn't your disability, but that respect has gone out of the window.
You have bi polar and you've suffered with what simon's described, so I can't understand why you cant use your experience with it and with depression to stop someone else from having to experience it or trying something as radical as suicide.. What you've done instead, by saying - in effect - 'shut up and stop complaining, my problems are worse' is actually quite spiteful and you're only going to make him feel worse. I don't respect that at all.
oh i'm so upset i'll have to get a big tub of ice cream and watch a chick flick after what you've just said :(
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 20:54:40
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Originally posted by Elipton:
You don't need to be center of attention all the time.
i don't think i do
the fact is i've been through more shit in my life than anyone else on this forum i've been on the verge of death 4 times (twice due to failed suicide attempts) plus he hasn't given any real insight into why he wants to end his life and from what he's said i really don't see why he needs to end it he's at uni, he's smart, he's fit and healthy and that's all you really need in life having no friends shouldn't be a problem imo sure it's nice to have friends but it's not a necessity in life
i'll have to deal with depression for the rest of my life since it's one of the symptoms of my disability plus being diagnosed as bi polar in the last year doesn't really help me out that much but i look at it in the sense that it's all a state of mind and it can't hurt you unless you allow it to
i really should be dead after some of the things i've been through and done to myself over the years so maybe i'm stronger than most people i don't know but i do know that doctors and the help/medication they can provide along with advice from others be it family, friends or randoms on the internet can only do so much the rest is upto you you just have to keep your mind focused on why it's better not ending your life
stewart this better ****in no be you ya stupid little **** if it is you're gettin the shit kicked out eh yi ya ****in wee trout
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 21:05:20
you get what you give willy you gave me shit for the mistakes i made you made a mistake by logging in on my laptop and not logging out so **** you you call me a deranged psyco so i'm making you look like one i have your facebook too :p
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 21:27:56
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Originally posted by Elipton:
You don't need to be center of attention all the time.
i don't think i do
the fact is i've been through more shit in my life than anyone else on this forum i've been on the verge of death 4 times (twice due to failed suicide attempts) plus he hasn't given any real insight into why he wants to end his life and from what he's said i really don't see why he needs to end it he's at uni, he's smart, he's fit and healthy and that's all you really need in life having no friends shouldn't be a problem imo sure it's nice to have friends but it's not a necessity in life
i'll have to deal with depression for the rest of my life since it's one of the symptoms of my disability plus being diagnosed as bi polar in the last year doesn't really help me out that much but i look at it in the sense that it's all a state of mind and it can't hurt you unless you allow it to
i really should be dead after some of the things i've been through and done to myself over the years so maybe i'm stronger than most people i don't know but i do know that doctors and the help/medication they can provide along with advice from others be it family, friends or randoms on the internet can only do so much the rest is upto you you just have to keep your mind focused on why it's better not ending your life
ok i know this defo wasn't me because of the fact i've never tried to commit suicide and i'm not bi polar
and although i have been through quite a lot of bad things in my life i would never talk about them on a forum of all places
i've pm'd silver about changing my pw hopefully this will happen asap
@ don_simon3000 don't take any of this to heart mate talk to your doctor and get some help i've been in the same position i'm just lucky i had my family there to help when i felt as low as shit
to everyone else i apologize for this shit and it's being dealt with if it is who i think it is then he's a known troll and it kinda is my fault since i logged in on his computer to upload n post my track on here as mine is now being repaired atm
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Posted - 2015/02/17 : 23:26:04
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Now why would we want that when it's starting to get juicy???
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