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cruelcore1
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 Posted - 2012/04/16 : 16:51:26
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Originally posted by warped_candykid:
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Originally posted by cruelcore1:
For how long have you been in the relationship with him? Have you been living together for w while?
If you aren't sure, try living together for a year or few and see how it works. If you're still a happy reasonable couple, get married. If things change too much towards worse, you can always divorce (a process that can last a year).
We've been together 2 months, and so far, it's just something we've accepted as a difference between us. I just recently started re-thinking about it and I wish I wouldn't had. We are planning on moving in together May 4th.
well its good to think things through before getting married. but don't you think 2 months is little too soon?
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(and i doubt anyone who is buddhist is going to cause problems over belief)
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Posted - 2012/04/16 : 18:34:17
Buddhism has it's fair share of nutters.
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Posted - 2012/04/16 : 18:38:03
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Posted - 2012/04/16 : 21:49:04
Just my opinion without reading all the waffling that has occured...
You're Christian and your in a homosexual relationship...Is there not people hating on you considering homosexuality is like the mother of all sins? (if your into believing that..I'm not personally love is love...it doesn't discriminate by gender)
So does it really matter?
sorry to sound harsh and all but i only see religion important in a relationship if its going to cause problems about marriage..like you cant get married in that religions church unless your both said religion.
this is why i dont bother
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Posted - 2012/04/17 : 04:20:16
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I would say that it has as much significance in the relationship as you having different tastes in food. That is however unless you feel like it matters. As others have said, it only matters as much as you think it does, which you don't because you said you respect each others beliefs.
I assumse latinxtc is joking.
The reason for the line of thinking presented by warped is that proper christianity (not just lip service to it) has such a deeply personal involvement that having a husband/wife that does not conform to the same would quite significantly effect your relationship. Imagine it this way. The person you marry you are more or less supposed to start sharing the same life, sharing all that you do, all that you think, all your problems and issues. If they cannot share in your christianity which to you is likely to be the most significant part of your life, they really can't share with you at all.
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Posted - 2012/04/17 : 07:36:32
LOL @ Thinking about marriage after 2 months.
If I was that guy id be running a ****ing mile.
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Posted - 2012/04/17 : 17:01:04
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LOL @ Thinking about marriage after 2 months.
If I was that guy id be running a ****ing mile.
I highly doubt he was considering proposing. I think he was asking in general, and thinking long term.
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cruelcore1
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Posted - 2012/04/17 : 18:33:20
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Originally posted by m0nst3r:
Just my opinion without reading all the waffling that has occured...
You're Christian and your in a homosexual relationship...Is there not people hating on you considering homosexuality is like the mother of all sins? (if your into believing that..I'm not personally love is love...it doesn't discriminate by gender)
So does it really matter?
sorry to sound harsh and all but i only see religion important in a relationship if its going to cause problems about marriage..like you cant get married in that religions church unless your both said religion.
this is why i dont bother
As homosexuals, they can marry formally only, not in any Christian Church. Besides, by my knowledge, you don't have to pick the same religion to marry in a Christian Church.
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Posted - 2012/04/17 : 19:22:37
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Besides, by my knowledge, you don't have to pick the same religion to marry in a Christian Church.
In Catholic churches both partners need to be Catholic and undivorced.
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Posted - 2012/04/17 : 19:26:15
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Originally posted by Warnman:
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Originally posted by cruelcore1:
Besides, by my knowledge, you don't have to pick the same religion to marry in a Christian Church.
In Catholic churches both partners need to be Catholic and undivorced.
dam >.> that sucks 15 inches
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Lilley
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Posted - 2012/04/17 : 21:56:04
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In Catholic churches both partners need to be Catholic and undivorced.
Not really. Not in most countries at least.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_marriage#Conditions_for_a_Sacramental_Marriage
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Posted - 2012/04/20 : 01:46:03
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Originally posted by warped_candykid:
I knew my partner wasn't Christian before we started dating, and so far it hasn't been a problem. I'm Christian, and he leans more towards Buddhism, but doesn't practice it. We decided to just mutually respect each other's beliefs. Here lately though, I've just been re-thinking about it, and just wondered if anyone else has had success with this situation?
If you really love her/him, religion should never matter.
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Posted - 2012/04/20 : 16:58:51
If you really love her/him, don't marry them!
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Posted - 2012/04/20 : 22:26:40
It's funny watching people who obviously have no idea about religion of any sort contribute their opinions nonetheless.
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Posted - 2012/04/20 : 22:31:15
Religion is just a useless thing in modern age. Most say they're Christian and barely know who Jesus was.
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