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Jessikah
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 Posted - 2007/01/18 : 13:19:00
hiyer guys !!
some of you all ready know that i found out i was pregnant between xmas and new year but in the past couple of weeks i have decided to keep the baby :D im not 15 weeks gone, so just over 5 months left :) really excited about it, everyone picking out names and clothes already.
well just wanted to ass on the good news :D
x
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Smoogie
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 Posted - 2007/01/18 : 14:03:19
I hope it works out for you then? Have you got any names in mind?
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Jessikah
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Posted - 2007/01/18 : 14:12:27
liam or kyla.
little bruva wants ben or katlyn.
dont know yet. ill decide properlly wen i fin d out the sex
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bulby_g
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Posted - 2007/01/18 : 14:34:58
:s Best of luck with it. Just don't end up regretting it when you lose "the best years of your life".
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kathryn
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Posted - 2007/01/18 : 16:32:39
Hope eveything goes well for you and you get loadsa support from your family Jessikah!
I like Leah Kay for a girl
All the best and if you need any tips etc just give me a P.M
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Mortis
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Posted - 2007/01/18 : 16:38:19
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Originally posted by bulby_g:
Just don't end up regretting it when you lose "the best years of your life".
I lost that once.
It was the first ever record I bought, way back in 1982. I still cry myself to sleep about it now...
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Da Cunney Bugz
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Posted - 2007/01/18 : 18:25:18
quote:
Originally posted by Mortis:
quote:
Originally posted by bulby_g:
Just don't end up regretting it when you lose "the best years of your life".
I lost that once.
It was the first ever record I bought, way back in 1982. I still cry myself to sleep about it now...
...due to the fact your on the front cover??? :)
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Mortis
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Posted - 2007/01/18 : 18:41:41
^^^ 
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dee_licious
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Posted - 2007/01/18 : 19:11:08
Well, as a fellow 'mother' i wish you all the luck in the world! You are going to need it! Babies are a lot more work than they look! One of mine didn't stop crying for 18 months!!!! It isn't easy but if you have a good supprt network behind you, i'm sure all will be fine! Very best of luck to you and congrats! Must have missed the post when you said you were pregnant 
Hope all goes well for you! 
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iluvhrdcor
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Posted - 2007/01/19 : 06:22:27
hope everything goes well and you have a healthy baby. i am glad that you have the courage to take on a child unlike me having to turn to a termination as a result because i feel i am to young and that i wouldn't be a good mother even though i would try my best. i just feel that i wouldn't be good enough and probably be raising it on my own. with the first pregnecy (which happened even though i was on the pill) i definatly couldn't keep it due to the violent guy it was too and the fact that i was only 19 and the second time (like the the 1st i was on the pill) the guy who i am with now said he couldnt raise a child.
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Hardcore4eva
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Posted - 2007/01/19 : 07:58:01
quote:
Originally posted by Da Cunney Bugz:
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Originally posted by Mortis:
quote:
Originally posted by bulby_g:
Just don't end up regretting it when you lose "the best years of your life".
I lost that once.
It was the first ever record I bought, way back in 1982. I still cry myself to sleep about it now...
...due to the fact your on the front cover??? :)
Haha, nice one!
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Jessikah
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Posted - 2007/01/19 : 11:02:43
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Originally posted by iluvhrdcor:
hope everything goes well and you have a healthy baby. i am glad that you have the courage to take on a child unlike me having to turn to a termination as a result because i feel i am to young and that i wouldn't be a good mother even though i would try my best. i just feel that i wouldn't be good enough and probably be raising it on my own. with the first pregnecy (which happened even though i was on the pill) i definatly couldn't keep it due to the violent guy it was too and the fact that i was only 19 and the second time (like the the 1st i was on the pill) the guy who i am with now said he couldnt raise a child.
thanks, well i wasnt going to go through with it because of my age im only 16, will be 17 when the baby is born. But i just couldnt go through with it. i know im dead young but i guess i just went with my instincts not what people were saying to me. Me and the dad have been together now for 17 months so it wasnt like a one night stand. he is currently looking for a place because he wants to spend as much time with the baby as possible.
thanks for all your comments and yeah bulby_g i properlly will miss out on the best years of my life but i know i will be happy and that is all i care about at the minute x
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ihaveduff
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Posted - 2007/01/20 : 00:34:05
I really really support your decision to keep the bub there ... i know it's a tough one to make. I had a child with one of my ex girlfriends and we talked it over and decided that we couldn't keep her. It was honestly the hardest decision i've ever made. She had the termination and it's the biggest regret of my life now. I want to get a memorial plaque done for her but the ex is 100% against it and is now refusing to speak to me :(
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Capt.Neon-Coeval
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Posted - 2007/01/20 : 01:02:30
o how nice congrats
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kathryn
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Posted - 2007/01/20 : 09:23:14
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Originally posted by ihaveduff:
I really really support your decision to keep the bub there ... i know it's a tough one to make. I had a child with one of my ex girlfriends and we talked it over and decided that we couldn't keep her. It was honestly the hardest decision i've ever made. She had the termination and it's the biggest regret of my life now. I want to get a memorial plaque done for her but the ex is 100% against it and is now refusing to speak to me :(
maybe its painful for her or maybe shes selfish!
Did you plit up because of it?
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ihaveduff
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Posted - 2007/01/20 : 09:39:37
eventually we did split up, about 8 months later, but things in the relationship soured very quickly after the initial period which brought us closer together... She doesn't think about it anymore, and she's told a few people who helped us through that she doesn't care for it and doesn't think its worth thinking about :(
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