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Smoogie
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 13:43:54
Yer, yer yer, whatever, your going to break uop with me for being too clingy? **** that, I am a real boyfriend coz I care! Yer, I broke it off with my g/f the other day after being warned about her reputation about messing people around.
So now back on the market i an going to explain that the real men are not those that cheat, sleep around and lie, they are loosers with the brains of 15 year olds! Real men care for there girlfriends and although I have a repuation for being clingy, i am never possesive!
So to anyone who has a problem with clingy guys, don't messege me!!!
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kathryn
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 13:55:25
quote: Originally posted by Smoogie:
Yer, yer yer, whatever, your going to break uop with me for being too clingy? **** that, I am a real boyfriend coz I care! Yer, I broke it off with my g/f the other day after being warned about her reputation about messing people around.
So now back on the market i an going to explain that the real men are not those that cheat, sleep around and lie, they are loosers with the brains of 15 year olds! Real men care for there girlfriends and although I have a repuation for being clingy, i am never possesive!
So to anyone who has a problem with clingy guys, don't messege me!!!
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sorry to hear that Smoog's!
why are you clingy?
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bulby_g
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 14:26:32
Heh.
Someone who isn't clingy doesn't have to be a cheat... What kind of logic is that? People need room to breathe. There is nothing worse than an ultra clingy partner. Most people learn to not be clingy after a couple of serious relationships... Obviously your going to be one of those few that doesn't :) A stalker I think they're usually called.
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jenks
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 14:57:07
Clingy because you care? Sure it wasn't because you were paranoid? Anyway get in there with you preemptive dumping ha ha
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lucificifus
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 15:01:33
Sorry about that Smoogie. But tbh people need to feel independent of their partner. You know, like an adult. It's hard for some people, including myself, not to be clingy. But you'll learn to manage.
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SexyJona
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 16:10:21
the correct term is bunny boiler
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Smoogie
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 17:17:52
I like my own space as much as anyone else, yet I do get paronied about stuff, anyway, my freinds help me so its all good!
Keep your thoughts coming!
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djDMS
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 17:23:55
quote: Originally posted by Smoogie:
Keep your thoughts coming!
My thoughts?
You're nowhere near mature enough to have a serious relationship.
If your near-obsessive behaviour regarding other things spills over into your love life, you're doomed before you start!
There has to be a fine balance between showing you care and being there for someone, and holding on to them for dear life!
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dee_licious
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 17:35:07
Oh to be young again.......NOT!
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Da Cunney Bugz
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 17:36:08
there dif between bein clingy n carin, if u cared that much ud be able trust her
insecure if u ask me ;)
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Smoogie
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 19:11:46
quote: Originally posted by Da Cunney Bugz:
there dif between bein clingy n carin, if u cared that much ud be able trust her
insecure if u ask me ;)
Yer I am, like everything else I have researched into it. i do care yes, but its not always the girl I don't trust, its 'him'
Him being the exboyfriend who had a chance, blew it (for someone else somtimes) yet wants another chance. They go by the names Ryan and Nigel and have been given the label- 'Girl theifs'
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Da Cunney Bugz
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 19:26:18
there 2 of em! didnt realise u went owt with chicks like dat smoogster
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Smoogie
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 19:38:31
quote: Originally posted by Da Cunney Bugz:
there 2 of em! didnt realise u went owt with chicks like dat smoogster
I meant that the ex boyfreinds have names like Nigel and Ryan!!! I have only been out with girls so no1 start getting any funny ideas!!!
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-Bazza-
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 20:06:04
quote: Originally posted by kathryn:
quote: Originally posted by Smoogie:
Yer, yer yer, whatever, your going to break uop with me for being too clingy? **** that, I am a real boyfriend coz I care! Yer, I broke it off with my g/f the other day after being warned about her reputation about messing people around.
So now back on the market i an going to explain that the real men are not those that cheat, sleep around and lie, they are loosers with the brains of 15 year olds! Real men care for there girlfriends and although I have a repuation for being clingy, i am never possesive!
So to anyone who has a problem with clingy guys, don't messege me!!!
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sorry to hear that Smoog's!
why are you clingy?
Too much velcro?
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Underloop
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Posted - 2006/11/03 : 20:29:21
Let me try and get this straight in my head....
You dumped your girlfriend who you trust because her ex-boyfriends are trying to get back with her? But you trust her not to do anything with them (either seperately or together?) but you don't trust them to do what exactly? Get back with her without her consent? Or do you just not want to be with a girl who has ex-boyfriends who still find her attractive?
Sorry if I'm being dumb here, but thats all I can make out from what yuo've said Smoogster, and it doesn't make sense!
Either you don't trust her - has she given you reason not to? If she has then fair enough! If your going off your friend's word of mouth though.....
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You need to sort your own jealousy issues out before getting involved with somebody else Smoogs. If you don't then your going to upset people you claim to care about.
Just my thoughts, but I'm kind of agreeing with DMS here..... your young! Enjoy life! Don't get into a relationship until your at a stage where you can handle your emotions better.
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kathryn
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Posted - 2006/11/04 : 12:20:23
Yeah i agree with Matt and Dean!
Enjoy your young life go out with ya mates and have fun theres always time as you get older and wiser for settling down/relationships!
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