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djDMS
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 Posted - 2006/08/19 : 14:05:59
I need some advice on what could be a pretty important decision.
I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up.
She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently, although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them".
I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi?
I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.
I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed some marks/scratches on the rear wing of my car.
So what should I do?
Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 14:17:42
I know a "professional" who can sort all your problems out for you
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Simon
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 14:55:49
Personally mate, I think you're just going to have to leave it and hope it repairs itself like some relationships do. 
How long did you stay hiding behind your car for?
I hope you saw the the scratches straight away!
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1up
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 Posted - 2006/08/19 : 15:12:05
wait.... DMS asking for advice? is this about the car or the g/f???
cause OUCH! things are really really getting poopy... i dunno what i could do... things are heaps poopy here too =(
sorry im no help...and to brag about myself on a thread of your own... but i personally think for the past 3 weeks everyone has gone crazy... like the great depression only that its the emotional depressing kind of depression
i just recently got dumped by my g/f. its kinda silly when i think about it... i loved her to bits, and she just wouldnt talk or do anything with me. she told me i got the dumping cause it was for the best for me. WHAT ABOUT US?! she said i never did anything for her (which was bollucks), i went above and beyond for her, she NEVER did anything for me and she blamed me for ruining it. you just CANT do ANYTHING when your not even talking to me x( she said i worried too much and i get worked up over nothing.
well i kept to myself... i even thought (even planned out) about running away or jumping off a building... but i guess im coping... its just that things are different...
oops... thread jack... sorry =( well... think CLEARLY before you do anything silly... and be prepared for the worst... aint exactly the greatest words of wisdom but good luck to you mate.
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 16:30:18
quote:
Originally posted by djDMS:
Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?
*confused look*
wait..... what?
was this supposed to be a joke?
you need advice about your car or g/f?
lol, sry m8. Just after reading that I was like "....wait.... wtf?"
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Underloop
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 17:21:08
My guess is it was a joke...... Dean always manages to hang on to his girls. He keeps them all in his cellar
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Ionosphere
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 17:39:46
....*sigh*......
mmmn......?
.....................well,
*looks skywards for inspiration*......
How deep are the scratches?
Is it possible to T-Cut them out?
If the cut is too deep, and goodness knows that must hurt,
it would probably be best to seek proffesional advice.
You don't want to be part of a relationship where you feel that the other half is
damaged goods.
The best of luck with it mate.
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djDMS
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 17:54:16
quote:
Originally posted by Ionosphere:
....*sigh*......
mmmn......?
.....................well,
*looks skywards for inspiration*......
How deep are the scratches?
Is it possible to T-Cut them out?
If the cut is too deep, and goodness knows that must hurt,
it would probably be best to seek proffesional advice.
You don't want to be part of a relationship where you feel that the other half is
damaged goods.
The best of luck with it mate.
Good answer mate.
Yes, of course it was a joke
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Brian K
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 23:12:29
I'd beat her with a bag of oranges, doesn't leave any bruises that way 
I think the only sign that's missing from the 'usual' is her telling you not to use her computer =P
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Ionosphere
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 23:51:01
quote:
Originally posted by Brian K:
I'd beat her with a bag of oranges, doesn't leave any bruises that way
I think the only sign that's missing from the 'usual' is her telling you not to use her computer =P
yeh, and then you can empty the oranges into a blender and make a nice
cooling drink.
....waste not want not.
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Posted - 2006/08/20 : 00:56:18
ive seen this before. i didnt think you would ever come to happyhardcore.com for girl advice...and i was right. :D
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Posted - 2006/08/20 : 03:16:07
Body shop really depending on how deep the scratches are.
Scoobies are know for having thin paint .
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Posted - 2006/08/20 : 04:43:08
I hope you get the car sorted mate,
And for the relationship, The only thing I can say is that Time is the greatest healer...
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djDMS
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Posted - 2006/08/20 : 16:04:42
quote:
Originally posted by clarke101:
Body shop really depending on how deep the scratches are.
Scoobies are know for having thin paint .
Not half mate.
I only have to look at it the wrong way and half the paint comes off!
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Posted - 2006/08/20 : 16:10:10
quote:
Originally posted by djDMS:
quote:
Originally posted by clarke101:
Body shop really depending on how deep the scratches are.
Scoobies are know for having thin paint .
Not half mate.
I only have to look at it the wrong way and half the paint comes off!
Yeah, but your looks have turned milk sour in the past
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 Posted - 2006/08/20 : 21:25:29
Hahaha class mate 
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