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XtarsiA Senior Member
United Kingdom
431 posts Joined: Mar, 2005
Posted - 2006/08/06 : 16:12:59
Do ppl here sometimes just feel really very alone?
right now i do.
my girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago now, and i still miss her with all my heart.
but sometimes i wonder if really i just dont want to feel so alone any more.
when i was with her, i felt safe and like i had someone who i could trust and confide in. (i belive everyone needs at least one person in their life like this)
im quite a quiet person really, and tbh, dont like the going out, getting drunk and getting off ya face thing tht most ppl do these days.
id absolutly love to go to a rave where the atmosphere really is as friendly as ppl say it is, but i dont know of any close by to me.
and i hate clubbing, theres always an air of social supremecy in all the clubs ive ever been in.
meeting new ppl is rather hard sometimes, especially if ur like me i guess.
i get the impression these days that the wold is just rushing around as fast as it can and never really stops to think.. its easy to get left behind in it all
i dont know why im posting this... i can see someone flaming me for being a pansy aswell lol
whittle1 Advanced Member
United Kingdom
3,191 posts Joined: Jan, 2005
25 hardcore releases
Posted - 2006/08/06 : 21:53:24
Men need women more than women need men.
Most middle-aged men are likely to commit suicide if they do not have a partner. Strange fact that one.
Let me also add that i'm kinda going through the same period as you are dude so i'm hearing you. The way i see it, try and do something that you've always wanted to do but could never do it before for whatever reason, because you have nothing to loose and it could leave you feeling fulfilled, you never know.
Brian K Advanced Member
United States
8,663 posts Joined: Sep, 2001
528 hardcore releases
Posted - 2006/08/06 : 23:18:39
it is depressing when you break up with someone because you loose the sense of security you had. it takes awhile for you to feel comfortable to open up again to someone and you feel like giving up on the opposite sex (or whatever sex you’re attracted to)
nothing wrong with going out with your friends and just getting pissed to try and ease the pain, just do it in moderation (ie not every night)
sometimes it's good to spend time alone, get to know yourself again and what you want. just make sure your life is sorted before you go out and try to find another woman/man because rebounds are usually not good.
ps: you pansy =P j/k
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-Bazza- Advanced Member
United Kingdom
1,276 posts Joined: Oct, 2004
18 hardcore releases
Posted - 2006/08/06 : 23:22:47
quote:Originally posted by whittle1:
The way i see it, try and do something that you've always wanted to do but could never do it before for whatever reason, because you have nothing to loose and it could leave you feeling fulfilled, you never know.
ihaveduff Advanced Member
Australia
944 posts Joined: Apr, 2005
28 hardcore releases
Posted - 2006/08/07 : 01:19:39
You're not alone mate, i know exactly that feeling, i can really relate to that.
My two closest friends are leaving permanently, and i havnt been with a girlfriend for a year, and i still miss the feeling of having someone close to me and that i trust completely and can confide in...
I just try and put it out of my mind and keep myself really busy... but still at the end of the day i'm alone :(
either way, just keep smiling and you'll get through it mate
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kathryn Advanced Member
United Kingdom
6,520 posts Joined: Apr, 2005
Posted - 2006/08/07 : 11:28:36
when i was feeling lonely and down i came on here to catch up with others and that!
Now i am with Stu who has put the spark back in my life!
Like Charco said 'silver lining on every cloud' hope your sorted now and that you feel better
I have come on here when feeling really low and the response of the members was really uplifting!
My life obviously revolves around my children but i like to have the company of adults you know conversation e.t.c!
Stu has been my rock and i have been so lucky to have met someone so caring as he is and understanding.
Chin up XtarsiA!
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