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SlimeShady
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 Posted - 2006/06/26 : 21:18:01
Seems like he has some underlying emotional problems.
If he's only having sex with you when he wants it and not when you do, then he's trying to control the relationship his way.
You'd be better off breaking off the relationship and finding someone who appreciates you.
As for you feeling unattractive... don't.
He'll learn in time that he's probably lost the best thing thats happened to him, by which time you'll have found a new man who's giving you what you need physically and emotionally.
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marchhare
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 Posted - 2006/06/26 : 21:54:11
Interesting,nope not all like that just your guy friend .I dont know whats up with him?Maybe you should send him packing
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SixFeet
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 22:02:10
you're not gonna find the answer on here. only way to find out to is to sit him down and ask. don't do it in a harsh tone and sound like you're pissed off otherwise it can only make the situation worse. relationships are about communication and compromise. reassure him if there is a problem that you will listen and take it into consideration blah blah blah etc etc etc
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1up
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Posted - 2006/06/27 : 12:49:16
quote:
Originally posted by Squishy Star:
"Do you want to try an Aussie kiss? It's like a French kiss 'cept down under."
hahaha never heard that one!
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FriedRice
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Posted - 2006/06/27 : 14:16:43
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Originally posted by 1up:
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Originally posted by whispering:
If everything else fails, remember, that you can always get lots of loving from Finland ;)
aussies do it better  its called "the land down under" for a reason! LOL
Hahaha thats funny
Uhh i would really suggest coming out about it and trying to get him to tell you...i dont really see any other way
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dj_excy
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Posted - 2006/06/28 : 11:28:31
i dont argu about sex because
1. i dont have a gf to argu with!
2. im still a virgin :)
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dj baptist
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Posted - 2006/06/28 : 13:57:43
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Originally posted by iluvhrdcor:
sorry guys, but really what is up with u??? half of u may not be like this at all, but my boyfriend certainly is....
anyway, when i want to have sex, its like i am not allowed to touch him or get into it, he says "its out of bounds" or makes up some sh@t story why i am not allowed to go there.
but today when he feels like it (SOME WEEKS LATER) after i have tried for so long, he decides that he wants a bit..... so i say "no" and he gets all cut and says " fine looks like u wont get any for along time then" and i a say " well its no different to our normal day life".... i am not unattractive and i don't like to say i am attractive... i guess i am in between... do any of u get the same thing or is it just me?
my gf wouldn't let me have sex with her the other night so i went round
the corner and had sex with the local slag,when i got back she said she was sorry,and she let me bum her to make up for it
haha safe innit
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bulby_g
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Posted - 2006/06/28 : 14:27:23
Must be nice for you having your mum live so nearby.
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FriedRice
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Posted - 2006/06/28 : 16:08:25
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Originally posted by dj_excy:
i dont argu about sex because
1. i dont have a gf to argu with!
2. im still a virgin :)
Man that sucks, how old are you?or are you waiting for marriage?
Hat off to ya if you are that takes quite the level of commitment...not saying i am a pimp but still to wait all that time its pretty good
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1up
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Posted - 2006/06/28 : 16:25:56
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Originally posted by iluvhrdcor @ http://happyhardcore.com/forums/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=29308 :
sorry to hear that dude, my boyfriend just split with me lastnyt and i haven't stopped crying. but then he starts talking to me and i have no clue whats going on.... so i am really feeling for you. xox
sorry to hear about the bad news... =/ a drink! to Triquatra and iluvhrdcor... dw life goes on... things will work out! with or without them!
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Charco
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Posted - 2006/06/28 : 18:18:37
quote:
Originally posted by dj_excy:
i dont argu about sex because
1. i dont have a gf to argu with!
2. im still a virgin :)
On the same boat...But it's out of choice, Haven't met the right person-so to speak.
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Hard2Get
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Posted - 2006/06/28 : 19:20:10
quote:
Originally posted by FriedRice:
quote:
Originally posted by dj_excy:
i dont argu about sex because
1. i dont have a gf to argu with!
2. im still a virgin :)
Man that sucks, how old are you?or are you waiting for marriage?
Hat off to ya if you are that takes quite the level of commitment...not saying i am a pimp but still to wait all that time its pretty good
I'm 20 and a virgin and it takes no level of commitment whatsoever for me :P
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Mortis
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Posted - 2006/06/28 : 19:33:07
quote:
Originally posted by dj_excy:
i dont argu about sex because
1. i dont have a gf to argu with!
2. im still a virgin :)
quote:
Originally posted by Charco:
On the same boat...But it's out of choice, Haven't met the right person-so to speak.
quote:
Originally posted by Hard2Get:
I'm 20 and a virgin and it takes no level of commitment whatsoever for me :P
I think thats to be comended.
Their's too much preasure on teens going through school & then going out clubbing ect, to be sleeping with eachother at such a young age. For someone to still be proud of being a virgin is special if you ask me, I was a virgin until 19 or 20 I think, and I was embarrased about the fact. But then I thought, who cares, it's my choice.
Lets face it, you'd have to be pretty silly these days to be going out sleeping with random folks just because you think "it's the thing to be done".
At the end of the day, the right girl will come along, more than likely when you least excpect it. And when it does, you'll be much happier for it I can tell you.
Thumbs up lads.
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Edited by - Mortis on 2006/06/28 19:45:23 |
Charco
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Posted - 2006/06/28 : 19:41:33
Cheers mortis...
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iluvhrdcor
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Posted - 2006/06/29 : 06:06:41
i lost mine when i was 20 and just turned 22... i also was embarresed for along time at school cause everyone was doing it, my sister lost her viginity when she was 13 and she wouldn't be able to use a calculater to count the number of boys she has sleeped with and i am 2 years older then her and have only had sex with 4 people.... so don't rush into it, its really not that important... its great when you share it with someone you love.
oh thankyou to 1up...
to dj baptist... just cause you don't get sex that isn't cool to cheat on yr girlfriend, maybe like my bf, there maybe a reason why she didn't want to put out for you?
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