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dj_sin
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 Posted - 2005/12/13 : 16:08:26
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Originally posted by Hardcore4eva:
I agree with Bone who ever disconected phone n internet needs a slap!
I've been wiv my GF for 2 years now n we live about 30min drive away from each other, she has only just passed her Drivin test n im doing lessons! we would see each ova at least once a week, meet up in Manchester Center, get public transport to each others houses or our parents would give a helping hand! Its got to be a 2 way thing tho, not just u going to see her, she has got to make the effort aswell m8, otherwise im sorry to say that you are gonna be played n used to her benifit !
At the end of the day, 'If its ment to be..... Its ment to be!'
Good luck pal!
she has no one in this state. she moved up from alabama and has been here for 7months. and lives in a small town. isee what your saying about being played. but i have nothing and that skool(college) makes it tough. she knows that i have nothing. and just wants to be with me.
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SERA
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Posted - 2005/12/13 : 17:43:38
hmm.. u need to take a step back and look at things a bit more level headed.
ive been a long distance relationship (2hours distance!!) though i never had the problem of not being able contact though.. it ended rather badly though..
what bothers me about your last post are the words "she knows it. and doesnt care." what do you mean by that? and you say tru love.. but us guys can be very easily swayed and taken for a ride with great ease.. have you made arrangements to meet her again? or is the situation at the moment a case of u juast have to turn up at random? if so.. and u still want things to work then the next time u see her, i would explaine to her the facts. dont go blabing on about your emotions, and how u want to see her more. if u tell her the facts she can work the rest out from that. take charge of things aswell! tell her that because of the distance you would like it if there were some sort of regular arrangement maybe once a month where u can always meet the same time same place and go from there to different places each time. and 2 months.. is not a long time.. but i really dont know what u r feeling or how blown away you might be.
if u think she is the one. make sure in your mind, not just your heart! it might sound a bad to to think about things like this but.. look for the bad things that she does.. and i mean really look!! think of all the silly things like any silly expressions.. u know those things that u see in ppl that for some reason just annoy you. then think can u live with them?
most guys at first just go "wow this chic likes me! I LOVE HER!"
im not saying its not possable to fall in love at first sight, but if u have, then thinking about things like that wont stop u from loveing her.
the other thing.. though i dont want to cast doubt.. the being cut off, no internet ect..though i dont fully know your situation.. it seems to me like you are being purposefully ignored. if thats the case, DONT go crawling back around spouting the word "Love" 2million times, be cool.. keep it together!
life can be reallllllly crap.
and im waffeling lol (again! its a bad habit.. )
hope u find something helpfull in that lot lol
good luck 
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Priest
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Posted - 2005/12/13 : 17:52:26
yeah dude, if you realyl have a thign goin for her (which it really looks like ya do, kudos). then dont worry, resistance only pushes you closer together, and in the end harder to split up :)
but next time you're over at her place, have some fun. pull a prank or two on her roomie. Like super-glue all er stuff to the roof (gah that still makes me laugh).
ps. typing poorly is so great when you're writing a position paper on the side :D
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dj_sin
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Posted - 2005/12/13 : 18:04:42
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Originally posted by SERA:
hmm.. u need to take a step back and look at things a bit more level headed.
ive been a long distance relationship (2hours distance!!) though i never had the problem of not being able contact though.. it ended rather badly though..
what bothers me about your last post are the words "she knows it. and doesnt care." what do you mean by that? and you say tru love.. but us guys can be very easily swayed and taken for a ride with great ease.. have you made arrangements to meet her again? or is the situation at the moment a case of u juast have to turn up at random? if so.. and u still want things to work then the next time u see her, i would explaine to her the facts. dont go blabing on about your emotions, and how u want to see her more. if u tell her the facts she can work the rest out from that. take charge of things aswell! tell her that because of the distance you would like it if there were some sort of regular arrangement maybe once a month where u can always meet the same time same place and go from there to different places each time. and 2 months.. is not a long time.. but i really dont know what u r feeling or how blown away you might be.
if u think she is the one. make sure in your mind, not just your heart! it might sound a bad to to think about things like this but.. look for the bad things that she does.. and i mean really look!! think of all the silly things like any silly expressions.. u know those things that u see in ppl that for some reason just annoy you. then think can u live with them?
most guys at first just go "wow this chic likes me! I LOVE HER!"
im not saying its not possable to fall in love at first sight, but if u have, then thinking about things like that wont stop u from loveing her.
the other thing.. though i dont want to cast doubt.. the being cut off, no internet ect..though i dont fully know your situation.. it seems to me like you are being purposefully ignored. if thats the case, DONT go crawling back around spouting the word "Love" 2million times, be cool.. keep it together!
life can be reallllllly crap.
and im waffeling lol (again! its a bad habit..)
hope u find something helpfull in that lot lol
good luck
i would like to thank you for being up front. the words "she knows it" and "doesnt care" come from a post earlier about being played. and i replied i have nothing to my name, and she knows that. and she doesnt care that i have nothing. she just wants to be with me. for the first time in my life someone wants me for who i am. at first when we talked we were friends but we have so much in common. and we both want the samethings in life. we would talk on the phone from 9pm - 5am everynight and almost all day on weekends. this is not puppy love. i am 26 and know what im talking about. i knew there was something special about her. we tell the honest to god truth about everything. and yes i have plans to meet her and i know her situation was getting bad from the last time i saw her. but mostly it has to do with her jealuos roommate. her job has been slow and cant afford her cell phone. and her roommate decides they dont need a phone or the internet in the house . its just hard right now. to find something real and to be part from it. i was looking for some feedback from some people. thank you
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Dj DontStop
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 03:00:03
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Originally posted by dj_sin:
im sorry man but its not like that. i cant think of any other than her
i totally understand.
a while ago i was going out with this chick who just being around made me soo happy. it wasnt about the sex, just being around her, everything was just.. perfect. i cant ever remember being that happy before :P.
but she moved away :( and we're still really good friends and shyte. but long distance relationships dont work for super extended periods of time :P
u said she works, and yet her roommate can disc the phone, tell ehr to buy a cellphone, or get another landline installed, one with which her roomate has no control over. or else go down there and beat his ass till he cry's and tell him never to fcuk with u again ;)
u g2 take care of ur shit man.
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dj_sin
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 05:42:19
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Originally posted by Dj DontStop:
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Originally posted by dj_sin:
im sorry man but its not like that. i cant think of any other than her
i totally understand.
a while ago i was going out with this chick who just being around made me soo happy. it wasnt about the sex, just being around her, everything was just.. perfect. i cant ever remember being that happy before :P.
but she moved away :( and we're still really good friends and shyte. but long distance relationships dont work for super extended periods of time :P
u said she works, and yet her roommate can disc the phone, tell ehr to buy a cellphone, or get another landline installed, one with which her roomate has no control over. or else go down there and beat his ass till he cry's and tell him never to fcuk with u again ;)
u g2 take care of ur shit man.
hey man. her work is going slow. as in almost nothing at all for the type of work she does. this roommate was her friend at first and had these great ideas to save money. like getting a cellphone plan under his name and saving some money. and now that she wants me he gonna turn it off. i should go beat his a$$. but then he'd probably kick her out so now i got to wait until she can get out of there to do that
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djhixxy1
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 07:39:48
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Originally posted by dj_sin:
im sorry man but its not like that. i cant think of any other than her
Haha I've felt like that before, but I move onto liking new girls all of the time. It's not love, it's more like an obsession when you first meet someone new or first start liking someone.
The best thing is, most girls I've felt like that about have been friends of mine 
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dj_sin
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 14:33:17
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Originally posted by djhixxy1:
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Originally posted by dj_sin:
im sorry man but its not like that. i cant think of any other than her
Haha I've felt like that before, but I move onto liking new girls all of the time. It's not love, it's more like an obsession when you first meet someone new or first start liking someone.
The best thing is, most girls I've felt like that about have been friends of mine
yeah that's kool. but im past that point in my life. i was begining to think that these kind of feelings weren't real. i was not looking for love it just found me, and one way or the other i will find a way to be together with her. thank you
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Hardcore4eva
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 14:39:38
Dont any of you drive m8??
that could be a start if u wanna see her more!
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dj_sin
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 14:46:19
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Originally posted by Hardcore4eva:
Dont any of you drive m8??
that could be a start if u wanna see her more!
i go to college and cant afford a car right now, she has no car and her job is slow, as in barely making ends meet.
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B.C
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 14:50:30
why don't you get a part-time job or why doesnt she get a new job if her current one is so crap?
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Hardcore4eva
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 14:53:08
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why don't you get a part-time job or why doesnt she get a new job if her current one is so crap?
yea, money dont come off trees (wish it did tho)
Thats another thing, Women cost you money!
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dj_sin
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 14:59:24
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why don't you get a part-time job or why doesnt she get a new job if her current one is so crap?
ok its like this. i got a full time job and between tuition, rent, living expenses. i dont have much left. and she lives in a small town. where you dont have much chioce. when you live in a small town and you dont have a car. to travel to the big city for a good job.
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dj_sin
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Posted - 2005/12/14 : 15:04:51
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Originally posted by Hardcore4eva:
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Originally posted by B.C:
why don't you get a part-time job or why doesnt she get a new job if her current one is so crap?
yea, money dont come off trees (wish it did tho)
Thats another thing, Women cost you money!
i have a fulltime job and with tuition and rent and living expenses. and my grrl has cost me only the money i pay someone to bring me to her
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dj_sin
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Posted - 2005/12/15 : 18:50:08
hey guys she got a hold of me and we're meeting up for the weekend.
she walked to the payphone intown 2 miles in the snow
thanx for your comments
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